I picked up a wedding hairstyles magazine. Granted, it was $10...alot to pay for a magazine in my oppinion, but when I found the perfect hairstyle for me then it was worth it. I pretty much already knew what I wanted, but I feel a whole lot better having a picture to actually show the stylist. I'm keeping it very simple. My hair will be down, hopefully a bit longer by then ~ and I'll have a little bit up, kinda like mommyof2 described (sides up). My hair is naturally curly, but too curly lol. So, I'll straighten it like I do all the time anyways, but have the stylist make some loose curls at the bottom. I won't be wearing a veil or tiara, just having a single sunflower in my hair.