I am having 2 MOH . One is my 12 yr old daughter( she'll be 13 by then ) maiden of honor . The second will be my best friend who will the maid of honor . Obviously my daughter cannot do all the responsibilites that are supposed to be handled by the MOH but I feel as though she should be the one beside me at the alter . I didnt plan on having 2 actually but then my friend started talking about helping me do this or that , and planning a bridal shower etc etc . She has been my main friend to help me and really be involved so if she wants to help and plan all of that I figured I should give her that honor . I think now-a-days whats most important to you works , regardless if its considered " traditional "