So here's the deal, we've been together for a few years and would like to make it official. The only thing is we live in PA, his family is in OH and mine is in NM. Its important to both of us to have our family with us, but we are unsure of where to have the ceremony. Keeping in mind that our grandparents probably won't be able to travel and of course the old money sitution. We don't want it to be a financial stretch for our families to travel. So, does anyone have any suggestions? Thanks!