Well FH and I have been engaged in conversation. We're definitely not eloping that would hurt our parents too much. We have, however, narrowed it down to two dates (as of right now): December 29 and February 13. It's kind of up to us, and everyone else will do what we want.

At least that decision is moving forward. On the other hand, i'm still dreading talking to my family. It's not so much a matter of being complaining but rather them knowing exactly what he did and me being heart broken for three years. I'm the only girl and the youngest and they really can't forgive him. I have a feeling my dad is going to be really disappointed, which is so hard because I love my FH so very much. *sigh* Well at least his family is excited.