Hopefully your family will come around try explaining why you forgave him but, it will be tough because I know if someone hurt my baby sister I wouldn’t want to forgive. Family is funny but we usually come around if it is what is best for you. The fact that your friends can’t be there is awful but I am sure they will still wish you well. I am also glad you guys are talking about a date that makes everything move along. Soon it will be time to go dress shopping And Black and White themes are so fantastically sophisticated it should be beautiful and I think easier to plan because you will have more choices at your finger tips, everything comes in black and white.
Keep your chin up and everything will be great!!!!