I think you were looking for "the proof is in the pudding" but your English is great, so no worries.

I think a wedding in Italy would be wonderful my funding only consists of a DIY wedding in my town but if I could I would stop everything and get married in Italy tomorrow. The closet that I got was my Aunts did up their basements like a little Italian restaurant and severed pasta, Italian cookies, and tiramisu instead of cake for my shower. And the one my mom throw on her side had my little Italian step-grandma making this awesome waffle like cookies and penne. She is an awesome cook and we make ravioli from scratch together every year. I am very jealous of a real Italian wedding. But I will have real Italians at my wedding