I would feel the same way you do. I'm not even having a father daughter dance. I'm not sure what would be a good song. I'm not even having the father daughter dance. We're having a mommy/son and daddy/daughter dance with our two children. This way our children feel included also. I don't have a father and my step dad I love to death and he's walking me down the asile but I just wouldn't feel right doing a dance becasuse I wasn't daddy's little girl either. Good luck with finding a song. Don't forget you could always switch it up too, to make you more comfy about it also.