I'm in a wedding where I'm moh and my duaghter is flower girl, then I'm getting married where my daughter is also my flower girl, would it be worng to ask my friend if we could try to pick out a dress we both like so my daughter could just wear it again? All in one year I'm gonna have 2 bridesmaid dresses and a wedding grown and then two flower girl dresses? That's alot when I have a whole wedding myself to pay for. And I don't know how to ask her. We went and looked at dresses and she picked one for her then said oh this would be perfect for yours. I don't want to buy two dresses for my 5 y/o if she will have one that will still fit. Am I just being cheap?