Oh do I know how you feel I am getting married on Saturday TOO. Please calm down because the last thing you need is to make yourself sick you poor thing. I make sure to keep a bottle of wine in the house and if I am having a stressful day I close the door pour a glass of wine and watch some stupid funny tv show and forget about the wedding for that night.

If your FH does not want to replace his men then so be it and the man who just had a baby WILL show he is not a mom he is a dad and he can leave and probably does leave whenever he wants… Use the stupid man logic to your advantage. But if no one shows for your hubby ask a dad or an usher (if you have one) to stand up with him. No big deal if he is not worried you shouldn’t be either. I don’t think one of my bridesmaids is going to show but whatever their loss not ours. Those poor boys though they are the best reason ever to not come.

And finally tell your parents that you love them but now is not the time to stress you out so butt out. The only thing any family member should be doing now is offering support to you two. Pictures will be fine your photographer is a professional and will figure out placing for you..

GOOD LUCK and I hope everything is beautiful and loving.

Jess