I just had my batchelorette party and we started with a Passion Party. I love them. When I hosted my lil sister's batch party 2 years ago I heard about these and of coarse was nervous. (especially cuz' our mom was there & the groom's aunt!!) But what a great thing it turned out to be! So great my best friend became a consultant! (That's who did mine.) Anyway it is not all about 'toys' and uncomfortable stuff- there are things that my 62yr old mom bought- like lotions or solid perfume. We didn't know that first consultant at all- but she made everything so comfortable. No one felt 'out of place' at the first party or at any since then. And NOW if I mention a Passion Party I have girls asking how to have one and I'm not even the consultant! Have fun whatever you do, but I DO recommend a Passion Party!!