Good Lord! And I thought I had problems!!! My heart goes out to you! I am 7 days from our wedding & I have not had anything like your list. One or two, maybe, but oh my. However- do not get discouraged to the point where you are doubting it. The only signs are the ones that are saying Beware Of Wedding Service Vendors. Sorry vendors, but a bride has to be so prepared and ready for them or she'll get walked on. Stay strong and firm as to what you want. My cake lady at first told me my idea for decorating the cake would be "too busy" so I said that I would go with this pic of one she had done. Well, a friend reminded me that I am not paying her for her opinion but to bake and decorate. So I brought along an extra pic of the cake I wanted and told her that's what I want and I didn't hear another word about how "busy" it is. Get firm with these vendors- you are paying them for a service. Good luck and best wishes to you!!