I really dont want to have a lot of kids at my wedding, just the ones that are part of my family or my fiancees family. There really arent that many, probably 5 altogether, and i like that. How do i keep from having other guests bring their kids, especially if me and my fiancee dont want them there? I just dont want them messing things up and getting into trouble, because i know some parents dont look after their kids that well at these types of events, they just let them run of and do whatever they want. I want a polite way to tell guests that this is basically an adult only wedding. Any suggestions?