I have to agree, that saying blood is thicker then water is bull. My best friend is more my sister then anything. And I'm closer to her family then any one in my family, exceapt my mom of course. And if she lives so fay away she can't just drop everything and come to your aide if you're having a bride crises. Cuz no matter what you do something is bound to happen to make you go nuts and you'll need your moh to help you though. Cuz your soon to be is probably goona stare at you and be like what's the big deal. You should really ask someone your close to. It's your day.

And for not inviting her really think about it because My moh isn't inviting her soon to sil. her sil had a huge big wedding invited everybody and their brother and didn't invite her bother, or my friend. But the rest of the family was there. Then at the wedding she told everybody that she invited them but they were rude and never showed up. Well their dad knew this wasn't true and told everybody this and it actually turned out to ruin her day because then everybody said she was rude and a liar. So if you don't invite and people ask why just tell them your reasons. Don't lie. It might make it worse then actually having her there.