Here's my problem I have grown up most of my life without a dad. My real father left when I was a baby. I don't even know him. I have a step father in my life who I would have but my mom says I shouldn't. Because right now they're on the skirts. They're back and fourth basicly. But she said i shouldn't plan on him. But I don't know who to ask then. I have uncles but I'm not even close to them. My ex husband, my daughter's father (it really wasn't a marriage it was to the court house for a rush hush wedding since I was pregnant) well I was talking to his new wife and she said I could have him and my current soon to be says that's a good idea. But I think that'll be very uncomfy and very weird. I'm still debating if I'm inviting them, I was invited to their's and her baby shower, and we're invited to their new daughter's b-day parties. We do this to show our daughter we're all okay. But wouldn't this just be wrong? Honestly, it's weird. But then I have a best friend who is male, but my soon to be really doesn't like him. He says we're too close, even though he has girl friends who are just as close. So I don't want to offend him. My mom agrees that I should have my ex do it. SHe doesn't believe in her walking me down the aisle. She said it must be male. My family is very tradtional when it comes to weddings. So i'm lost. PLease help. I'm ready to just say oh well and not have anyone walk me down the aisle.