My fiance and I decided on 4 bridesmaids and 4 groomsmen. He can fill his four no problem, I on the other hand can't make a decision on who to make the fourth on my side. My first 3 are my sister and my two best friends. The fourth could be a life long friend, or one of my cousins. I don't know who to ask. I feel obligated to ask my cousin because I was in her wedding, but I can't ask her and not her sister, but then I would have one to many bridesmaids, if I don't ask my life long friend I am afraid she will be hurt. Any suggestions? My time is running out, my wedding is in October and I haven't ordered the bridesmaid dresses yet!