That's true, I'm sure we can make them look different. And since only one side of the family will be the same people, maybe they won't notice. I'm also using claret and gold for my colors, and she's using pink and mocha, so that should help too. I'll talk to her about her other plans and let her know what I'm planning. Hopefully we both don't have the same exact ideas for our hair, makeup and veils! I'm glad to hear that I'm not the only one who's ever had to deal with this issue!