All of the weddings I have been to lately have had pictures beforehand. Mine will be as well BUT my brother is my photographer and he and my SIL are going to make sure the moment we see each other is private. That's what was done at their wedding and they have no regrets.

I am also having a Mary Kay consultant come over to my house next weekend to help figure out make up. I struggled with whether to hire someone or do it myself and I decided on doing it myself. saves money!!