Here's my problem. We set our date and was keeping it a secret, only my family his mom and my moh knew. We were gonna annouce it at his family reniune in August our plans. Well then his sister who is with her guy for one month annouced a couple months they were getting married next year and on the date we picked. So with her being the way she is we decided to move it to 2009. We didn't want any problems. Well then we were like oh well and since I was already planning it we just decided to let everyone know. Well guess what we got she said we copied her, and threw a fit!! {one we've been together for like 5 years} and have 2 kids. But any way my mil and I were talking about my wedding and she walked in the house and asked what we were talking about so I said my wedding well she then went off again. Then the one day trying to be nice I asked her if she picked her dress yet and you know what she told me "I'm not telling you or you'll copy that too." Well this really upset me and she upsets me alot might I add. And she's very rude to me, just this past weekend we were at her fh birthday party and she actually said to me "Whyed you come" And then told her mom since I was there I could be the one to do everything, and she'll just sit and relax. I've put up with her for 5 years now, and I really can't take it any more, and I try to tell my fh and he just says oh that's how she is just ignore it. But his mom told me that his sister is actually thinking of not even inviting me to her wedding!! Because I'm a nobody. Well this is now a family fight, because his dad said if I don't come then he doesn't walk her down the asile.{see he's only her step dad} So now I feel just awful. And I'm sorry this is so long but I need to vent and nobody seems to understand. And I thought maybe some of you could give me insight. Since we all have to deal with our future in-laws.