I asked my BFF to be my MOH and now I regret that decision. She is planning her own wedding and has not been much of a friend lately and I'm wondering...can I have a different MOH or am I stuck? And the biggest part of the reason that I am contemplating this is mainly because she has just not been a good friend lately and I'm feeling neglected by her (ie: she will call me to complain about her fiancé and I’ll listen patiently and offer advise but when I call to tell her my wedding maybe off, she is more concerned with a car that has wrecked and is off the side of the road…I mean, what is more important???). Or, am I being a baby?