Hello, this is what I did. I have the same fear that I'll forget something too. I went on the knot.com and googled wedding checklists. I actually complied a whole bunch because I've seen one's that didn't have what I wanted and ones with different things, etc. Well I took all these highlighted everything on every one I wanted or didn't want to forget, then I made my own. I think I had about 8 different lists, and there a few that were missing things from other ones and ones with extra things I thought were good. And now I have the perfect list. It took a couple hours to do, but I now know I won't forget anything.