I need some help. I have been friends with one of my bridesmaids for 10 years. But ever since I got engaged she has been saying things that hurt my feelings. Like, "I probably won't like your dress", "I should be getting married before you" among other things. Now, she keeps canceling with me to get her dress ordered. She has a lot going on with her life but am I wrong to want her to care about my wedding and stop stressing me out? What should I do???