Don't buy a wedding dress from ebay. One that dress might have been altered and then you'll have to pay out to get it to fit. You're better going to that site, someone else posted. Find a dress on there then go to the store and find it and try it on. But also did you ever hear of Deb the clothing store? I know mine has plus size prom dresses that look like wedding dresses. And also you could find some bridesmaid dress that look like wedding dresses too. I read someone if you call around for prices of say djs, caters, halls, etc and say it's a party it's a lot less then if you say wedding. You say wedding and things sky rocket. Even if you go to a dress shop look at the prom dresses. Half of them now a days look like a wedding dress. Good luck.