I'm doing my sides back and just a few ringlets aound my face and the back in big curls, and a veil attatched to a jewel clip. I saw a girl for the prom just a month ago with her hair like that just without the veil, but had the jewel clip and it looked so simple but elengrant all at once. It was just perfect. That's how I made my choice. I looked at girls for the prom and got ideas from that till I saw the girl with the big curls and made my choice. I haven't been to many weddings and when I search updos I was getting alot with the veil and couldn't get a good idea of the hair looked like. Good luck.