My fiancee and I are trying to narrow our list down as much as possible but since a lot of people know us they all want to come to our wedding. What is the proper etiquette for inviting or not inviting co-workers. I would like to invite one at my job but if I invite one should I invite the other 15. Which means when they do get invited they have the option of bringing a date which will total 30-32 people. Help please!