My family is so far paying for everything for the wedding. I've asked my husband to be what his parents will be able to contribute and his response is "they have to travel from farther away and it's gonna cost them lots just to get here" so he doesn't want to ask them for any money. We're not having a big expensive wedding or anything but I feel bad that it's my family paying for everything. He is trying to keep the expenses down, which bothers me cause my family is paying anyways.... How do I convince him that his family has to contribute too? I mean if my family was traveling I would still be asking them for money towards the wedding. We don't need lots either, like $2000 from each of his parents when mine are putting up 5 times that much. His Dad is a realtor and both are in a financial position that they can give us some money, or pay for some of it.

Am I asking too much?

HELP! ....