My fiance has some pretty wild friends and I have heard horror stories about bachelor's parties. What should I expect? Should I be worried? Should I ask him what they're doing?

I have the same worries about my fiance's bachelor party and actually talked to the guys throwing it. They actually brought it up and I was joking with them but in front of my fiance, they know what I don't want to have happen....

Make sure he knows what is acceptable to you. Some parties can get REALLY out of hand! There is no need starting out a marriage with resentment because of what happened at the bachelor party. And, make sure you adhere to your own standards.

When my MOH got married they had a joint bachelor/ bachlorette party. The boys played poker, and us girls had a passions party. Then at about 11 we all met out at the bars. It’s not traditional, but it’s more fun to party with those you love and not split up, plus then there are no secrets.

The last bachelorette party I went to was like that. We met p later with the guys. That was really fun!

What is a passions party?

Most guys are honest and know how not act at the party. If your guy is trust worthy there is nothing to worry about and if you're really worried talk to his friends if you're close to them. Just because they're wild doesn't mean he'll be wild. And trust me his friends will probably watch him and not let him do anything wrong either. They're not gonna wanna screw up a good thing for him, which you are the good thing.

A passions party is an adult toy party. need I say more?

Just talk to him and his buds and make it known what you don't want to happen. Or you guys can plan your own parties. My husband and I each planned our own. The girls went to the day spa and the guys went ocean fishing. It was tame and perfect! Good luck!