ok so i am getting married out of state, and the girls will be traveling down that friday before the wedding, so not all of them will be there before it is time to get ready for the rehersal, so should i take the girls that are down there already out to lunch or do you think that it is not fair that some would get to go to lunch and not all of them??

help!

I would take them to lunch because they took the extra time to be there for you! It's unfortunate for the other girls that they couldn't get there sooner, but I think the "early birds" would really appreciate and enjoy lunch (and some last minute bonding) with their soon to be married friend!

You could also do it befor you leave to go, that way you wont have to worry about it when you get there, because you will be under a ton of stress there.

i thought about doing it before, but i have stuff like every weekend, a friend of mine is getting married 2 weeks after me and it is just crazy between the two of us.

Showing your appreciation by taking the "early birds" out for lunch is a wonderful way to show your thanks, even though not everyone will be able to attend. For the girls who are unable to make it for lunch, be sure you still express your thanks to them with a handwritten note and token of your appreciation. Let them know you are sad they aren't able to be there for lunch but suggest that maybe sometime after things settle down you can spend some time with them one-on-one.

I personally think its a great idea to take the girls out to lunch...those who could not get there early will understand.