A co-ed bachelor/bachelorette party can be a LOT of fun. I didn't do it for my wedding, but I've been involved with the planning of several bachelorette parties, one of which was co-ed.

I think the best solution for this type of event is to spend part of the night with just the girls and then meet up later with the guys. That way you get to have some festive girl-only time, but still have the thrill of co-ed partying. Since I've been a bride, maid of honor and bridesmaid multiple times, I decided to put together a website with everything I learned. For some fun co-ed bachelor/bachelorette party ideas, check out my thoughts here: Co-ed bachelorette party .

I like the idea of starting out with the girls doing one thing and the guys doing another and then meeting up later. I am not exactly sure what I want to do for mine yet. I know my FH's friends will have something up their sleeve. As far as how to include underagers, maybe you could all go to a bowling alley for some cosmic bowling. That way, those who want to drink can, and those who can't, won't be left out.

We are having a golf outing for all of us. I think that way everyone, even the minors can have fun. I am not into the "normal" bachelorette party.

That actually is a very great idea! The more the merrier! There's nothing better than sharing your experiences together.

My H2B and I want to go bowling together as our co-ed party. We both go bowling weekly for fun anyways. We both told eachother we wouldn't be happy if some of the things that now seem to happen at the separate parties occured.

It depends on where you live but you might also have a "fun park" somewhere that has go-carts, laser tag, mini golf, some have bowling, but that way the younger part of your wedding party can have fun too.

My H2B's sister had her rehearsal joint and they did it at Dave N Busters. Just a couple ideas for you.