Hi All!! My fiance and I were talking about have a combined bachelor/bacheloretter party and I wanted to see if anyone had suggestions of what we could do or if it is a good idea...? We aren't doing it because either one of us is jealous or anything, we just honestly think that it would be more fun for both of us if we did it together....
Any suggestions or advise would be much appreciated = )

Thanks!
Heather

I think that sounds like a great idea!!!
As a matter of fact that is something I have been thinking about for us. Im happy to hear someone else has thought if the same thing.
We enjoy being together, and never go out without one another, so I thought it would be a fun night.

thats what we are doing.. we have the same friends..we're not "partiers" so we're all going out as a big group.

I think it's a great idea! I would like to do something similar, but my Fiance is really looking forward to spending an entire night playing video games (no strippers, maybe a few drinks). And, I'll be honest, I'm looking forward to a night out with the girls. But I think it would be wonderful to combine them!

Thanks everyone! Do you have ideas or suggestions of what to do?? Also, my younger sister is my MOH, and she's 18 will be 19 in August. Either way she won't be 21 so I kind of wanted to do something that can include her or at least that she can be included in part of.
Suggestions????

I actually went to a bachelorette party when i was 19 and no fake id :-( I was able to go out to dinner with them and basically stay out til around 930 when the bars start checking. After that I walked to the hotel where they had gotten me movies, and i was able to see them when they got home and do breakfast in the morning.

Most of the parties around here either start out as Co-ed or turn into it eventually...co-ed is really alot of fun.

hey I'm new to the site but just wanted to say me and my FH intend to do a co-ed party his sis and her husband did that two years ago and it was alot of fun...
"Also, my younger sister is my MOH, and she's 18 will be 19 in August. Either way she won't be 21 so I kind of wanted to do something that can include her or at least that she can be included in part of.
Suggestions????"
~almostmrsk~ Ya'll could have a big party at someones house and do food,music, drinks for the of age people and virgin drinks for anyone not of age. Make it festive;boas and sashes for the girls (ie.Bride,MOH,BM,etc) and hats{bk crowns decorated all crazy} for the groom & grooms men????I dont know if this is something that sounds interesting or not...jsut make it fun for you & your crew!

hey i have conscidered doing the same thing (coed party) and what i had thought about doing since i'm having his sis as one of my BMs (she's 12) was going to the go cart tracks. they also have a lazer tag thing so i was thinking boys vs girls!!!! keep it competitive, but also have fun with our friends and such. maybe as suggested after it starts getting late, take those underage home and head out for some late-night grub at a restaurant like chilis or fridays where those who wanted to drink could, but no one felt obliged to do so.
Hope this helped and GOOD LUCK with all the planning

we are going out to dinner then leave the restaurant and head to Bourbon and kinda split . . . The girls have a suite on Bourbon and the guys are most likely getting a room in the same hotel. So we are still being together but at the same time having time by ourselves. Out of the 6 bridesmaids 4 of them are from out of town and our of the 6 groomsmen 3 of them are from out of town so we both want to spend time with them but since we are coming in Tuesday night and the wedding is Friday we will not have anytime to spend with them.