How many people are writing their own vows? Or are you using traditional vows. I am searching online for some vows that we like but so far we have only found bits and pieces of the ceremony. Any ideas???

I think we are going to just use traditional vows because I am going to be so emotional I don't think I could do my own that I wrote. Here is a great article I found on the knot about vows and different ones to use. The link I am giving is for nondenominational vows but on the right there are links for several other vows.

The Knot - Wedding Vows: Nondenominational Wedding Vows

Thanks ladies... I have found some vows that I like. But I am not sure about the whole entire ceremony. I know I want to do a unity candle and the vows and exchanging of the rings. Still confused on how to open the ceremony and welcome everyone. I am still working on that. I need to meet with the person who is performing the ceremony. Thanks!