ok, again my story.. postponed wedding due to money, now goin to TN alone.
one of my bridesmaid is an hour from me. She calls me with an attitude wanting ME to go pick up her dress and either drive down to her or mail it! the dress shop is 30 mins. from me?!!
I dont feel like it is my responsibility to worry about her dress! yes, it was for my wedding.BUT it was her money, her name, her size.etc. etc.
she tries and tells me that she has already used her gas and money to go down the first time to order, now she thinks its my turn to go pick it up?!!! i also dont have the time or money to drive an hour to come drop it off and drive home.

please, someone.. am i in the right or wrong??
i have been ignoring her calls, cuz i dont think i should have to go get it. should i?
all the other girls got their own dresses!

i can't believe this has ruined our "friendship"

I would say it's her responsibility to make sure she has her dress.

If I understand correctly, you first postponed your wedding, then decided to get married in TN with no attendants.
Please correct me if I have misunderstood...but if I had paid money for a bridesmaids dress, gas to try it on, etc...then I was told neither me or the dress was needed...I would be ticked.
If it were me, I would pick up her dress and mail it to her. I think I would also be reimbursing the ladies for their dresses if they can't be returned.

thanks for being honest!