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Old 07-23-2008, 09:59 AM
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Well ladies I have a dilemma, maybe. Let me explain everything that can go wrong before my wedding has.
1. My maid of honor stood me up on 3 different occasions ( and I practically planned her whole wedding) so she was demoted
2. My other bridesmaid backed out of the wedding and then a week later said never mind of course I will do it (good she already had her dress)
3. Vendors are mean…. I couldn’t get a reception hall to meet me on a good time since I work on Saturday days so my mom had to call and yell at people to get me appts.
4. My invitations were wrong 3 times
5. The tuxes were messed upped and it took me an hour on the phone to fix everything.
6. My FMIL ruined my shower (we’re fine now)
7. Two seamstresses bailed on me
8. When I finally found one I blacked out while she was pinning my dress
9. We have to do class before we can get married in this church and the people would not answer our phone calls and the people in charge did not care. We had to go above them to get the non -free option ($130 non-free)
10. My bridesmaid in Detroit waited until 30 days before the wedding to tell me her shoes don’t fit. I live in St. Louis 12 hours away
11. My mom’s dress does not fit, it’s too small
12. My other bridesmaids dress is also too small
13. I have not had my engagement ring for two months so my jeweler can make my wedding ring and he hasn’t even started yet
14. The baker my mom insists on using won’t do anything I want
15. The supplement baker I got is a dip and keeps asking me if I want to still do it
16. My DJ canceled our meeting because of a family emergency and did not reschedule
And on and on. So what I am asking is with all of this stuff going wrong are these signs that we should not get married or just normal you have crappie vendors and an even crappier wedding party stuff.

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Old 07-24-2008, 02:39 PM
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Default Re: Are these signs?

I've never had a wedding before, nor have I ever planned one. But I think that most of the stuff is just "normal". I think you may need to turn into a "bridezilla" to get what you want done. This is YOUR wedding and it should go the way YOU want it to. As for the vendors not working with you, find new ones. I know that's not always easy, but if the ones you have aren't working with you, then they don't want your business very badly.
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Old 08-04-2008, 09:57 AM
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Default Re: Are these signs?

Thanks I am just feeling the pressure I now have 26 more days to go !!!!!!!!!!!! This is very exciting but also extremely nerve wrecking. I just pray that everything comes together in time so I don't like break out in anxiety hives or something.
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Old 10-18-2008, 09:18 PM
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Good Lord! And I thought I had problems!!! My heart goes out to you! I am 7 days from our wedding & I have not had anything like your list. One or two, maybe, but oh my. However- do not get discouraged to the point where you are doubting it. The only signs are the ones that are saying Beware Of Wedding Service Vendors. Sorry vendors, but a bride has to be so prepared and ready for them or she'll get walked on. Stay strong and firm as to what you want. My cake lady at first told me my idea for decorating the cake would be "too busy" so I said that I would go with this pic of one she had done. Well, a friend reminded me that I am not paying her for her opinion but to bake and decorate. So I brought along an extra pic of the cake I wanted and told her that's what I want and I didn't hear another word about how "busy" it is. Get firm with these vendors- you are paying them for a service. Good luck and best wishes to you!!
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Old 11-14-2008, 12:03 AM
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I think you may need to turn into a "bridezilla" to get what you want done. This is YOUR wedding and it should go the way YOU want it to.
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Old 11-19-2008, 03:21 AM
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