Today me and my fiancee had a huge blow out! He and his best man got together this weekend and it was all good we have agreed NO STRIPPERS!
my man wrote in a email its good to get together with no womanfolk!
His BEST MAN wrote ug. no womanfolk. Meat good!
What does that mean I am do freaking upset? of course there was no reply to it! But we did get into a huge fight about it!

I have went through so much lately for this man, unbelievable he adopted two children that were from different fathers from his ex wife, she ended the six year marriage because she got pregnant with someones elses child! she now calls CAS on us whenever she doesnt get her way with him.
CAS has been really harsh with us were almost feelin like this caseworker is her friend she talks about such things like what happened in their relationship and what not and it has nothing to do with the children!
SO STRESSED OUT! I have two children I do not wish to have anything bad happen because of her antics we are actually considering going to a lawyer because the Caseworkers harrassing and inappropriate language was too much.
But tonight when I seen this from his best man I lost it, I actually threw my fiance and he went to his mothers because I lost it! After all these stressful moments I see this from his best man!
Any ADVICE PLEASE!

I think a lawyer is really important. I also think his best man was making a joke, I think some family counciling would be good for you two with all of the stresses you have to deal with, it can be nice going to an un involved 3rd party who can give both of you some support and advice. I hope this helps.