Hi everyone, I need your help!!! SOS!!

I fell in love with a woman, she is the woman of my life, she is a SUMO coach, she had strong character, she is very stubborn, self-made woman. I met her in a pub and realized that she is the woman of my life. The problem is that I am a transvestite and she doesn't know about it yet. What is to be done? How should I tell her about it? I am in despair! Help me please!

I think you should date her for a while before you tell her... I would also talk to a therapist, or if you arnt seeing one I would talk to a transexual/gender reasignment/transvestite support group and see how other people have told their signifigant others.

I think you should tell her, I don't personlly know how but maybe just say something from your heart. How ever she reacts is how she will react now or later because she either wont mind and have an open mind about it or if she doesn't believe in it then that is that. I would do it for your self too, because the longer you stay with her the more your heart gets attached and could be worse for you in the end, or if she decides to stay with you then you know you can get more attached and she loves you for who you are.
-Good Luck-