I have a question. I have 3 little girls to include in my wedding. Do you think it would be cool if I used the oldest of the girls (6 at that time) to be the ring bearer because We don't have any little boys, well we do, but he will be 2. And I have two 3 year olds. I was thinking of having the 3 year olds be the flower girls and the 6 year old girl be the ring bearer. Do you think that would work? She seemed excited to do that when I told her that she will be in our wedding.

I think that would work fine! do you already have what the "ring baerer" would be carrying? maybe you could just make it alittle more little girl-ish.

Hi,
A girl Ring bearer is pertfect .
So is a boy carrying a flower basket.
I have read an article about it where the author call them "Flower Child" and "Ring Bearer" and explains that gender does not matter. Actually, she says that it is rather refreshing to be unique.