Hi all, I'm new here, just wanted to say hello. I also have a few questions.....
So, I got engaged in August, wedding in May. I started out doing a lot of planning, and working full time. Now I'm starting to get to that point where I don't even want to plan anymore...anyone else feel/felt this way???
I've also noticed that i'm getting very nervous already. My fiancee is a great man, great father to his daughter. All of a sudden this week, I am having doubts and I don't know why. Anyone else dealing with this? I have family to talk to, but need some outsider opinions! Thanks for any you can give!!!

i know i feel the way you do. my fiance and i have talked ALOT bout eloping, cuz im just tired of planning, and dont think we'll ever get there..money wise. but i really want something to look back on down the road, so we are trying our best. also, we both work full time and different shifts, so im just stressed cuz its hard to get things done.

When we first got together, I was a full time student, and working part time. He was working 2 jobs. Now, I am working full time at 1 job (40 hours) and part time at another (to keep my health insurance until I'm eligible at the new job). It just seems like before, with such little time together, we valued it soooo much. Now, I'm just constantly tired and trying to plan at the same time. I really don't know how I am going to finish it all!

lol i know its hard.. and for me, on top of workin full time and planning, im tryin to get back in school.lol.