Hi everyone! I really need some good advice! My Fiance and I have been living together for 8 years. We are getting married this October. Since we have lived together for so long we have all the necessities that we need. Next year we are going to try to have a baby but unfortunatley we are going to need to do InVitro (IVF) which will costs us $25,000.00. In additon we are paying for our own wedding. How do we word it on the invitation that money would be appreciated in lieu of gifts (without sounding tacky). This would help us out with our baby planning next year. We are having an intimate wedding with family and close friends only. Thanks for any suggestions. Tammy