Wow, that is insane. Tiffany is right, when you accept that position there is an understanding that you will be responsible for the expenses. I could see if she was giving everything she bought to the new girl how she might want some compensation, but not all her money back. Hope all goes well!

The reason she left is because she didnt see why she had to help me plan everything...i planned my bridal shower and my bachelorette party, and when i called her she always told she had plans already! She even made plans the night of the bachelorette party! So really she can kiss my ***!

The thing that irritates me the most is that that wasn't my original bridal party. It was all family at first because i didn't want to deal with stupid stuff like this. My original bridesmaid Geneva didn't want to pay me back for the dress and never returned my calls, so i figured that she really didn't want to be in the wedding, so then i put Tina (the MOH that just quit) in because she said that she really wanted to be in it, and we've known each other since grade school, so i thought that i could trust her (guess i was wrong). Oh and to top in all off Geneva's husband Ricky (groomsman), Matt's (my H2b) brother called us 20 minutes before the guys final fitting and told us that they still love us but hes dropping out of the wedding along with their son who was our ring bearer! So we had to move everybody around, but that wasn't a problem with us it worked out better in the long run, but damn i really cant wait for it to be over! 11 days!!!!

Wow, I give you A LOT of credit, if I were in your shoes I would be a wreck. To look on the bright side, atleast you had one of each drop out so that kinda evened out I guess. You are so close, so don't let thi get you down, just keep taking it in strides and everything will be okay. It will all be worth it when you walk down the aisle.

The good thing is that everyone that dropped out had a replacement! I was very prepared for this type of stuff happening. I know that my wedding will be a blast and i cant wait for it to finally be here. Ive been waiting since February of last year for this day to come, and now its finally coming!

So I am kinda freaking out because no-one is returning the reply cards. An aunt told me that her invite was received all mangled in the mail, so now I am worried that no-one received their invitations and that is why they are not replying. The invites asked for everyone to reply by 4/17/2008, so that is exactly a week ago. Is it too early to start freaking, or should I start calling and finding out what happened?