We are both from a VERY large family, we have sent our save the date cards and we could not believe the responses.. "how many of our children can we bring" I finally told everyone that the children will be able to attend BUT the deadline will have to be at 8m when the band arrives. They will then have to send the children to the baby sitting area we have provided. I hope this helps.

i dont see what the kids will hurt, i think that they should be invited, but me i love kids, i have 2 nieces that arent even related to me they are my childhood best friend's and my fh's childhood best friend's little girls. and then i have my real nephew. and they are in my wedding, but then i have other friends that have kids, and there is no way that i wouldnt invite the kids, they are just so much fun, and entertain people when no one else can