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Old 05-13-2008, 04:55 PM
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I was filling out my guest list and putting in addresses in the break room at work.. I went to use the restroom and when I came back, one of the girls who I was inviting... added in her boyfriends name next to hers!!! i was not planning on adding a guest for my co workers, as we have very limited space.. now what do i do? If I allow her to bring a guest, I need to allow 15 other people to bring them as well!
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Old 05-14-2008, 06:28 PM
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I would just not invite her at all, ha ha. I would just say, "I saw you added xxxx name to my guest list, unfortinately we have a very limited space at the reception hall and we are unable to allow our guests to bring a guest as well." If she can't deal with it, she doesn't have to come, right?
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Old 05-15-2008, 06:35 AM
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I agree. That was so rude of her! I probably wouldn't have been quite as nice lol. That kinda crap gets under my skin. But, I suppose you should tell her in a polite way (for the sake of keeping peace in the work place) that there will be no +1 due to limited space.
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Old 05-15-2008, 01:32 PM
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I told my coworkers that unless they were married or close to it I was only inviting them no +1's. They were all very understanding of the money thing. It seems like as soon as you explian how much extra it would cost to invite the 15 other people they get it completely. Good Luck
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Old 05-30-2008, 08:43 AM
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That's out of control rude. I would never! I agree with all of the above. I would tell her that due to the size of the hall you are only able to extend the invitation to solely her. I would even place a little note in her invitation stating this. My friend had 4 people bring guests that weren't invited - even when the invitation stated that persons name only. Some people!
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