OKKKAY. If you can visualize, I am wanting to curl all my hair (its decently long) and then pull it over my shoulder in a loose relaxed pony tail (kinda like a formal beachy ponytail) and then have my bangs (they are the longer side swoopy bangs) just like styled and off to the side, pretty much like they are normally. AND SO. I have no idea what veil would work with this. Would a regular veil that goes down my back look funny since my hair would be pulled to the sides?? Any suggestions?

a veil that sits higher on your head would probley look the best but anything it really depends on your style and preferances. after all your the bride no one will think to much about anything. oh or another thing you could do is have on way low under the top of your neck/bottom of hair line.