My fiencee and his sister got in this huge huge fight on the 4th of July and she kicked him out of her house. To make a long story short, they are both hot heads and they both disowned each other, but she is a bridesmaid in my wedding!!!!! So now what??? HE said that she is not allowed at our wedding. I am trying to respect what he wishes so do I now look for a new bridesmaid, I don't have alot of friends, the next closest friend that I have lives in Georgia and needs to know to allow for time to travel to Michigan. Or do I let it wait and hope that this blows over.

He dosent have to love your family but he does need to respect the fact that you do, if she is a brides maid I say keep her, he needs to be the bigger man here even if he is doing it just for you.

wow that is a hard one. You want to respect both, but you have to live with your soon to be husband the rest of your life. You would hope that he would be the bigger man and get over it, but you have to think whether or not she would still be one of the bridesmaids. Sit down with him and let him know how you feel. However it might just be better to get someone else so that there is no fighting at the wedding. I hope I helpped a little bit.