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Old 07-13-2007, 09:12 AM
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Unhappy Problem w/FSIL

My fiance and I are getting married in March '08. I have chosen and asked my best friend to be my MOH. It was an obvious choice for me. My fiance however has trouble finding a bestman. He was considering his sister's boyfriend. That's the problem. Before he even asked, my FSIL informed us she didn't want her man to be the BM because she would be standing alone during the ceremony (yeah, uh.. 15 min.?) and he would leave her alone a lot to take care of the guests! Does she even have the right to say that to us? I was shocked. My BFF said she is probably just hurt that I didn't ask her to be the MOH. I might add that my FSIL is very selfcentered and likes it when everything goes her way. Any thoughts?

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Old 07-13-2007, 09:06 PM
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Default Re: Problem w/FSIL

he should ask who ever he wants, and so should you
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Old 07-14-2007, 09:05 AM
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Thanks MeganAnn
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Old 07-16-2007, 10:34 PM
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Default Re: Problem w/FSIL

I agree with MeganAnn, let him ask who he wants. She's just having issues about the attention not being on her. In fact, she's probably more worried about him mingling with the bridesmaids. Anyway, have your man ask the guy, and let HIM decide. Not her.
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