Hi girls,

Here are the news :

I canceled our wedding. My EX-MIL did one big scene to my EX-fiance (because we broke)

I moved out.

It's over.

Hey There,
So sorry to here you guys broke up.. I keep getting stressed and we just got engaged..

Some news.

My ex-fiance and I decided to go back together. And not to call off the wedding... So we are still on, but he promised me to keep my FMIL far from us.

What also changed our minds is that I happen to know that I'm pregnant ! It opened our eyes on what we anted together, and that we love each other.
For the moment of course it's a secret. I'm thrilled to have morning sickness !

I'm happy to share this good news.

I have been thinking about you and feeling really bad. I am glad that you guys are getting back together. It sounds like he got a bit of a scare, and it might be a good thing to keep it to yourself for a bit.

Congrats on the little one that is to come.

I just wanted to let you know that I think you made a very difficult but smart decision when you called off the wedding. Hopefully that made him think about whats really important. I do hope that he is successful in keeping his mother in check, especially with the little one on the way. (P.S. Keeping it a secret is probably the best at this point)
Best of luck to you all...

Thanks girls for your words.

I can't sleep with this pregnancy !!!

I heard that my FMIL is totally mad that we are getting married after all. And that we are keeping our date of May 9th.

My fiance stopped chatting with his ex. And when his sister phoned up the other to complain (she still lives with the mother), he just told her : I'm having dinner with Brit, I'll call you tomorrow!

The sister was mad at him, told the mother, and both the following day started to tell my fiance what his real family is, that "Brit is nothing", blablablabla.

He just told them to go f**** off !!!!

Good for both of you. Sometimes unfortunately a man has to choose between his mother and his wife, and it looks like finally your FH is choosing you.

Wow! I just joined this site and read through everything that you have been through with the family in law. I am so sorry that you had to go through all of this! I am kind of experiencing the same thing with my family to be as well. Our wedding date is June 28th and his family just keeps meddling in things that aren't really their business. My fiance's family comes from money and although my family is what I would call upper-middle class, his mother feels that I am not of the "proper" upbringing for her son. When we first got engaged, she would make comments to my fiance like " I'm just pleasantly surprised by this engagement! Hmm... Who would I have pictured you marrying..?" She constantly calls me by his ex-girlfriend's name and she brings up his ex at family gatherings, dinners with my family, and other social gatherings. She constantly makes me feel like I am not good enough. When we chose our wedding colors for the wedding (bright pink & a pale yellow... both summery colors). She was not happy. She would have "preferred blue and pink" since blue is my fiance's favorite color. i'm like ... this is a marriage... not a baby shower! So I feel for you! I have such a crummy relationship with my in-laws.