ok... so my wedding is two and a half months away and i absolutely can't stand my fiance's cousin who's gonna be his best man. since my fh and i have started dating this guy has done nothing but try to break us up! just recently he (as in 2 weeks ago) he said (to my fh) that he guessed since he was really serious about marrying me that he guessed he should start being nice to me HELLO what did he think we had been doing for the last two and a half years (eight months of which we've been engaged)? playing pretend!? no matter what i have done, i have never been "good enough" and he has always been rude and disrespectful to me. i just don't think i could stand him standing beside my fh knowing what he has put us through. (not to mention i'm worried about what he'll say in the BM speech.)

sorry girls, just really had to rant for a few.