Hello friends, since this is a place where the religious matters are being discussed I could not help myself to ask this. Actually I do not belong to a Christian community and there are several religious aspects when it comes to a wedding in our community and I want a minimum of these rituals when I get married. But then its too hard to convince the seniors about the same. Tell me how can I remain polite and explain them as I do not want to get into arguments. I have had difference in opinions selecting the 10th anniversary gifts for friends too.