We have been toying with the idea of using an online wishing well to receive cash contributions instead of receiving physical gifts at our wedding. Of course we would not welcome gifts but we feel that receiving the cash could go to something more useful such as our honeymoon, car or house downpayment.

What are your thoughts?

We have been thinking of using this service: OurWishingWell.com*

Has anyone used it yet?

Has anyone use any others?

Looking forward to your thoughts...

I definitely think that is a great idea and very acceptable. With how things are today in the real estate market-- that's a smart way to get some money together! My cousin got married last year and they had an open account with Liberty Travel so guests could help pay for their honeymoon and that too was acceptable. Good luck to you!

Andrea

This is a great topic cause I was wondering the same thing. I also would prefer cash to go towards something else. I also thought of the honeymoon fund.

It's kind of controversial. Younger people who depend on the internet (such as ourselves!) find it easier and convenient. But then there are older people who prefer tradition and might be offended that you're just asking for cash. They like to give a gift that you and your husband will use during your marriage, generally keepsakes like picture frames, candlestick holders, etc. etc. I manage the Home dept at the Dillard's in my town so I hear about this stuff ALL the time. I deal with bridal registry stuff every other day. It might be a good idea to use the wishing well as one option, but also register for a couple of items at a local store to please the rest of your guests.