As long as you have a big guest list, a big wedding party is ok. I'm having 7 bridesmaids, a jr. bridesmaid (same for the groomsmen), and a flower girl. People tell me that's too many but I'm having 300 guests so I say it's fine!

Sounds like you are planning a grand wedding. One thing I can think of that might be an issue....while trying to keep all figures, tastes and budgets in mind, I would make as many decisions on your own as possible. To ask for too many opinions of that many attendants could make your wedding planning very stressful and complicated. Keep it simple with that many attendants.

Best Wishes
Lori

I've just been on a site with lots of useful information about wedding parties

Wow....a big party..!But I guess it's not too big.