My "Best Friend'' and I have been friends for almost 9 years. I recently met my prince charming and we hit it off immediately. We knew that we were perfect for each other. I recently found out from my fiancee that my so called best friend has been dogging me behind my back. I had always said that she would be one of my maid of honors along with my sister. I also recently found out that she has a huge crush on my fiancee before we even got together and I did not know..Now our relationship is not the same as it was before....I'm not sure what to do because neither one of them likes each other...They can't even stand to be in the same room with each other....I still want her in my wedding but only as a bridesmaid now.....Am I wrong and what should I do?????????

talk to her first. if you want her in your party, put her in.. maybe your sister can be your maid of honor?
i kinda have a similar situation. my cousin and i were soooo close.. until i got engaged and she started trouble between the 3 of us. i put that episode behind and forgave her for lying and then right away as soon as she had my trust again she brewed up another outrageous story.
so now i dont know if i should still have her in my party at all considering we havent spoken really, for 7 months..