We asked my fiencee's sister to be a bridesmaid in our wedding but on the 4th of July my fiencee and his sister got in this huge fight and we were kicked out of her house and he disowned her and they still wont speak.He says that she is not allowed at our wedding and dosent care if he ever sees her again. They are both hot heads and won't swallow thier pride. So what do I do? Wait for this to blow over or should I ask someone else to stand up in her place? We have a little less than a year to go and havent picked out dresses or flowers yet.

This really depends on the situation. If they get into fights like this a lot, chances are it'll blow over and they'll be fine by the wedding. Then again, if she kicked you out of her house, I'd kick her out of my wedding if I were you. It's sounds pretty serious so you might want to go ahead and find a replacement bridesmaid.

I would suggest speaking with her and letting her know if it doesn't blow over then you will have to ask her to step down. Let her know it is important to you to have her in the wedding but you can't be dealing with all that drama now on top of planning problems. Maybe that will help them make up.

I agree. From your post I gather the problem was between your FH and his sister, not you. Therefore you can be the one to initiate the communication, hopefully without all the drama and excelerated emotions.

Best of luck!

It does depend on if this is a normal occurrence or not. If you don't know ask a different family member if they know and what they suggest. Plus maybe they can help smooth some feathers.

Sorry to hear that. The advices above are good. Maybe you should try one of them.